Online Self-Harm therapy

Virtual self-harm counseling for women

Online therapy can help you break the cycle of self-harm and develop healthy coping mechanisms.

We are NOT a crisis center. Any ACTIVE suicidal ideation or intention requires immediate attention that The Sassy Shrink is not designed to provide. Contact the crisis text line.

If you are in immediate danger, even by your own hand, please call 911.

If you are having suicidal thoughts or ideation, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 (TALK) to speak with a trained counselor. 

Are you struggling with self-harm?

You're not alone. It can be difficult to find the courage to seek help for self-harm. You may feel ashamed, embarrassed, or like you're the only one who struggles with this problem. You may worry that people will judge you or think less of you.

We provide online self-harm therapy for women, so you can get the help you need in a safe and confidential space. We understand what you're going through and we can help you heal.

Woman during online self-harm therapy session

Quality Care

Online self-harm therapy is confidential and convenient

You can get the help you need and explore your self-harm struggles from the comfort of your own home.

✓ Flexible scheduling
✓ Complete confidentiality
✓ No judgment

Licensed therapists

End the cycle of self-harm with professional help

With the help of a licensed therapist, you can learn how to cope with difficult emotions and situations without resorting to self-harm.

✓ Safe and supportive environment
✓ Experienced and licensed therapists
✓ Get the help you need

How it works 

Get started with online self-harm therapy in 3 simple steps

  • Woman scheduling free consultation on smartphone

    Schedule a free consultation

    This is a 15-minute call where we will get to know each other and see if we are a good fit.

  • Woman talking to therapist online

    Get matched with a therapist

    We will hand-pick a therapist from our team of experts that we think is the best fit for you.

  • Woman receiving self-harm support online

    Start therapy, anytime, anywhere.

    All of our sessions are conducted online, you can schedule a session anytime, anywhere.

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Pricing

Affordable online self-harm therapy for women

Affordable online self-harm therapy for women

Online counseling for a fraction of the cost of traditional therapy

Our online therapy sessions are $150 per session. Commit to your goals and save up to 20% with a package of 10-20 sessions.

Woman struggling with self-harm getting help online

Get Help

Get the help you need with online self-harm therapy

At The Sassy Shrink, we understand how difficult it can be to deal with self-harm. Our online self-harm therapy services are designed to help you:

✓ Understand your self-harm triggers
✓ Develop healthy coping mechanisms
✓ Address the underlying causes of your self-harm
✓ Heal the emotional wounds that may be driving your self-harm

Woman suffering from self-harm issues

Take Control

Don't suffer from self-harm in silence any longer

Self-harm or “self-injury“ can be a coping mechanism for dealing with difficult emotions or situations. It can be a way to numb yourself from pain, express anger or frustration, or punish yourself for feeling unworthy. But self-harm is not a healthy way to cope. It can lead to further emotional distress and physical harm.

 

Self-harm can look different for everyone

 

Some common forms of self-harm include:

Cutting

Burning

Hitting or punching oneself

Scratching

Hair pulling

Head banging

Swallowing things

Piercing the skin with sharp objects

Intentionally preventing wounds from healing

Woman supporting friend struggling with self-harm

We are NOT a crisis center. Any ACTIVE suicidal ideation or intention requires immediate attention that The Sassy Shrink is not designed to provide. If you are in immediate danger, even by your own hand, please call 911. If you are in crisis, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255

What about self-sabotage?

Self-sabotage is a form of self-harm that can be harder to see, but it can be just as destructive.

Society understands self-harm to be physical, to the body. Self-sabotage refers to intentionally setting yourself up for failure, compromising your potential and opportunity for success. Some do this actively, while others are completely unaware of their influence in missing the goal.

Sabotage could be present in any area of life, like relationships, at work, or in school. It can manifest in your thoughts, feelings, and behavior:

Compromising boundaries set for others

Sacrificing/neglecting the needs of others

Being critical instead of open to learning and change

Holding grudges and resentments

Projecting emotions onto others

Gaslighting, manipulation in relationships

Being inauthentic, hiding your true self


The bottom line is this: self-harm, in any form, is a way of coping with pain. If you're struggling to cope, we can help.

Self-harm therapy FAQs

  • The Sassy Shrink is an online therapy service provider for women. We offer a range of services to help women with their mental health, including self-harm therapy.

  • Online self-harm therapy is conducted over a secure video chat platform. You'll talk with your therapist virtually via video or phone to discuss any feelings of inadequacy or self-hatred that drive self-harming behaviors.

    Your therapist may help you figure out the source of your emotional suffering, such as abuse or neglect in childhood. You and your counselor can then devise ways to cope with and reduce that sorrow.

  • Studies show that online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy, and in some cases, maybe more effective.

    Online therapy can provide greater flexibility and accessibility than traditional therapy.

  • The frequency of sessions depends on the severity of your self-harm habits and the underlying causes of your emotional distress. In general, most people benefit from weekly or biweekly sessions.

  • Self-harm can lead to further emotional distress and physical harm. It can also be addictive and become a way of life. If you feel like you're struggling to stop self-harming, please reach out for help.

    Physical Effects of Self-Harm

    • Permanent scars

    • Infection

    • Nerve damage

    • Muscle damage

    • Joint damage

    • Digestive problems

    • Hemorrhaging

    • Amputation

    • Self-harm can also lead to death, either by accident or on purpose.

    Emotional Effects of Self-Harm

    Social Effects of Self-Harm

    • Loss of job

    • Loss of friends

    • Loss of family

  • Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapy that can help you change the negative thoughts and behaviors that contribute to self-harm.

    Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) is another type of psychotherapy that can help you learn to cope with difficult emotions and manage self-destructive behaviors.

  • People self-harm for many reasons. Some do it to cope with emotional pain, while others do it to punish themselves. Some people self-harm because they feel like they deserve it, or because they think it will make them feel better.

  • If you know someone who is self-harming, the best thing you can do is to encourage them to get help from a mental health professional. You can also offer support and understanding. Try to be patient, as recovery takes time.

    If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911.

  • Our online therapy sessions are $150 per session. See pricing

    We offer a free consultation call so that you can discuss your needs and see if online therapy is the right fit for you.

    Schedule a free consultation call now.

  • No, we do not accept insurance at this time. However, we offer affordable online self-harm therapy for women that is priced on a sliding scale.

Ready to get started with online self-harm therapy?

If you're ready to get started with online self-harm therapy, please schedule a free consultation.